buffet vs seating

which one is more preferable..??

My wedding date have not been decide yet, but roughly the date will be in the month of MARCH next year. My family kejap nk buat buffet den kejap nk buat seating.. cmne tue?? if this keep goin on, camne i nk decide tempat for my wedding kan.. come on guyz, make up ur mind.. but after all, it's more to ur budget..
for me, i prefer buffet.. save cost of course.. den kite bley ajak lagi ramai guests bak kata orang the more the merrier.. hehe.. just buffet takut gate-crash la.. let say our invitation 600org, kite pon estimate they will bring spouse n siblings n etc.. so, easily can reach up to 800pax.. den we ordered catering for 800pax.. tibe2 on dat day 1000pax plak dtg.. huhu.. lagi 200pax tue nk makan pe kan.. takut2.. anything can happened.. den if order catering food melampau byk, takut membazir plak.. another thing, time kite sibuk2 naik pelamin nnt.. guest2 sibuk2 nak makan.. in the end, sape jek yg tgok kite nnt.. takut kena ignore jek on dat day.. will that happened?? xde experience.. takut..
My dad plak prefer seating, die kate senang.. xyah nk tggu lame2.. one-shot jek.. time tue jugek sume bace doa.. time tue sume makan.. time tue jugek sume tgok pengantin.. time tue jugek sume balik umah.. tapi for seating, d cost will be double up n maybe triple up for per pax.. erm.. if buat seating, gate-crash pon susah kan.. yela, some guest nie xtau nk buat RSVP dulu.. tau2 jek da dtg.. den xkan pihak keluarga pengantin nk halau plak kan if diorg dtg2, den their name is not in the list.. huhu..

As conclusion, blom decide anything pon lagi.. Another 9 months, to me still like a long period.. but after reading all the bride-to-be bloggers.. jadi gerun plak.. diorg setahun before the big day da start all the preparations.. huhu..

Come on eazy, start ur engine now!!!